Every 1 in 4 teenagers are involved in a teenage relationship violence. 95% of them are females, not surprisingly. That was the stat which came out recently. I am sure too that every sinlge one either has been involved or know a person that has been involved in one. I myself is not left out.
Violence not only includes physical but also mental abuse as well. What might seem to be a perfect couple on the outside might not be so on the inside. It starts off with the honeymoon period right when you get into a relationship. Then the abuse comes in after a couple of months, or even after a year. This mostly occurs to females who are having their first relationship. Remember this..it isnt about love, lust or whatever you're thinking to make ur man happy.
A guy might say that he loves you and treats u like a princess when he's happy, what happens when times are down? I know stories where the guy treats the girl like a slave. Asking her to pay for everything, forcing her to go out, against the wishes of her parents, cursing at her parents. If he really loves you, would he do all those stuff? Don't be stupid, think smart. NEVER do something that u'd never want to just to make him happy, something that ud regret for the rest of your life, especially in common cases, sex.
Make sure you have the right friends around you. If you(the girl) is in for the fun and sex then that's different, but in a serious relationship, check out his history, check out his background, his friends. Usually the people he hangs out with are the reflection of him. Listen to your own heart before deciding what is best for your future. Prevention is better than healing. The mistakes you make will hurt the one you really love in the future.
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